crimesagainst crimesagainstwomen espionage hollywood(losangeles mannersandcustoms motionpictureactorsandactresses motionpictureproducersanddirectors newyorktimesbestseller newyorktimesreviewed nonfiction nyt:combined-print-and-e-book-nonfiction=2019-11-03 sexcustoms sexdiscriminationinemployment sexualharassment sociallifeandcustoms truecrime truecrimestories unitedstates women